Do we really benefit from every event or experience in some way?

I think that we can learn from some events and experience in someway. For example, when I challenge the advertising contest for the first time, I failed to win. After I experienced some failure, I was able to learn how to win the contest. So I could win some advertising contests. There is a word; "Failure is the mother of success". We can learn very precious things from the failure. If there are nothing special event or experience, we can't look other side and think again. However I don't agree that "every" events are beneficial. Some events are going to be a trauma. Many people suffer from these trauma. If it is really bed event, It is better to avoid it. There are nothing to learn through the trauma.

Hello, [이름]! (^^,) How are you doing so far? Not too busy I hope. ^^ Thank you very much for writing in our composition board. I love reading about your thoughts and opinions about these matters. Experience is the best teacher but it\'s also the most brutal one. It\'s the hardest kind of teacher because it gives you the test before you learn the lesson. It\'s very different from school. In school, when you don\'t do something right, you can try again tomorrow. In real life, you often get one shot at things. If you succeed, well and good. But if you fail, then you account it to experience. In my opinion, all experiences are beneficial. Whether it\'s good or bad. Even the traumatic experiences could teach you something. Having a traumatic experience teaches you to be more careful and vigilant the next time. Before I say goodbye, I would like to share you this quote: \"Don\'t be discouraged by a failure. It can be a positive experience. Failure is, in a sense, the highway to success, in as much as every discovery of what is false leads us to seek earnestly after what is true, and every fresh experience points out some form of error which we shall afterwards carefully avoid.\" ~John Keats So don\'t be afraid to experience new things [이름]. Success comes to people who are willing to experience new things and willingly embrace change. I hope you have a wonderful day. See you again tomorrow. ~Teacher Charry (^^,) I think that we can learn from some events and experience in someway. >> I think we can learn from some events and experiences in some ways. For example, when I challenge the advertising contest for the first time, I failed to win. >> For example, when I joined the advertising contest for the first time, I failed to win. After I experienced some failure, I was able to learn how to win the contest. So I could win some advertising contests. >> After that failure, I was able to learn some strategies or techniques that I could use in order to win advertising contests. There is a word; \"Failure is the mother of success\". >> There is a saying that goes this way: \"Failure is the mother of success\". We can learn very precious things from the failure. >> We can learn valuable lessons from our failures. If there are nothing special event or experience, we can\'t look other side and think again. >> If we feel like there\'s nothing special or beneficial from a certain event or experience then we have to look for another perspective. However I don\'t agree that \"every\" events are beneficial. >> However, I don\'t agree that \"every\" event is beneficial.   Some events are going to be a trauma. >> Some events are traumatic. Many people suffer from these trauma. >> Many people suffer from these traumatic experiences. If it is really bed event, It is better to avoid it. >> If it is a really bed event, then it is best to avoid it. There are nothing to learn through the trauma. >> There\'s nothing to learn from a traumatic experience.