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The thought of distortion makes difficult to accept other's a good advice. When we are struggling, we think our problem is bigger than exit. We try to solve the problem by ownself. That means we lost focus objectively. But a smart person takes other's advice easily giving up his a fixed idea.

Hello [이름], Thank you for doing your homework. The only thing to do with good advice is pass it on. It is never any use to oneself. First of all, make sure that the person who is talking to you is actually soliciting advice. He or she may just want you to listen and be a good friend, seeking instead understanding, empathy, and compassion. Don\'t assume that everyone wants advice. You may have some insight into the problem, but you really need to listen attentively to a person first for a very long time to understand the situation. It is a great honor to be asked for advice, but it is also a big responsibility.  Good advice can help people make sound decisions or find the right path in life, while bad advice can have disastrous consequences. 1. Listen to the person asking you for advice. Every situation is unique, so never assume you know all you need to know about a problem. Listen carefully to the person who wants advice, and learn as much as possible about this situation. 2. Put yourself in the adviser\'s shoes. Try to imagine yourself in the other person\'s situation. If you\'ve been in a similar situation, think about what you learned, but don\'t rely solely on your experiences to give advice - imagine that you are giving yourself advice for the unique circumstances that the other person is facing. 3. Think about the consequences of taking your advice. While you\'re at it, think about the consequences of not taking your advice. If there\'s no significant difference between the results of those two scenarios, your advice might not be bad, but it\'s not useful either. If the action you advise is impossible and if you can envision the path you suggest leading to a worse result than an alternative path would, your advice probably is bad. 4. Empathize. Many matters require sensitivity and thoughtfulness. If you really try to put yourself in the other person\'s shoes, empathy will probably develop naturally. Even so, be very careful about how you word your advice and be sensitive to the other person\'s feelings and emotional state. Giving advice is more than a logical exercise. It usually involves helping a person sort through conflicting emotions as much as conflicting choices. 5. Brainstorm with the person. Sometimes there is no clear-cut right answer to a problem. In this case, try to help the person mull over all the alternatives so that he or she can reach a conclusion together with you or on their own. Even for very simple questions, it can be beneficial to help the person develop his or her own advice, if only for the reason that he or she is more likely to take it. 6. Be honest. If your advised course of action has potential drawbacks, tell the person about them. If you don\'t really feel qualified or knowledgeable enough about something to give advice on it, be honest about this fact. Your goal should not be to blindly lead the person, but rather to help him or her make a good decision, so don\'t act like a salesman. 7. Set a good example. If you advise one thing but do the opposite, your advice will be seen as phony and hypocritical. If you do as you say, however, people will be more likely to respect your advice. 8. Understand that the person may not take your advice. Just because someone asks for your advice, they are not obligated to take it. Realize that the other person almost always knows more about their particular situation and desires than you do, so you can never be sure that your advice is really the best for them. Understand that people will sometimes ask advice just in order to bounce ideas off of you, and don\'t be surprised if a person rejects even good advice and decides to make his or her own mistake. Live with it, and let the person live with his or her decision. Teacher Sophia Here are your corrections: The thought of distortion makes difficult to accept other\'s a good advice. >> A person who is narrow-minded has a difficult time accepting good advices.When we are struggling, we think our problem is bigger than exit. >> When we are struggling, we think that our problem is much bigger than other things.We try to solve the problem by ownself. >> We try to solve our problems alone.That means we lost focus objectively. >> It only means that we don\'t think objectively.But a smart person takes other\'s advice easily giving up his a fixed idea. >> Smart people take good advices and they don\'t give up easily.