Is it better to err on the side of strictness or leniency with children?

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I usually try to err on the side of leniency with my child at normal circumstances.

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It may be because my wife spends a lot of time with my daughter and plays a primary role of a teacher and discipliner at home.

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I am a sort of spectator when it comes to educating her.

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I want to be a good dad instead of being a person who disciplines her like her mother.

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Because I spend little time with her, I do not want to give her a hard time.

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It is not necessary for both of us to be too strict to her.

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So my wife sometimes complaints that she is playing the part of the villain and I only play a role of a good man.

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My daughter is a good girl.

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She does not badger us into buying her toys or dolls at a mart, neither pester us for unreasonable things.

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She understands well when we explain calmly, so we rarely face the situation where we should take a stern position.

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The problem is that we sometimes lose our temperand get upset with her even for the same trivial thing that she used to do.

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